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Being a Gentleman means more than just having good manners. That’s why Gentlemen’s Secrets offers no-nonsense and pragmatic solutions which teach men exactly how to get to the heart—and more—of a woman.

Today, a Gentleman needs to have the strength, intelligence, and fortitude to sway and persuade the much more confident modern woman. Women today are headstrong and accomplished, and they need a man that STANDS OUT from her sea of options.

Stop signing up for conventional dating agencies or dating apps when the real problems stems from you not having the capacity to actually take charge and be the man that women DESIRE.

Approaching that girl at the bar, at your workplace or at that café is now a reality. Take control of your dating life at Gentlemen’s Secrets.
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wasted on pointless drinks, dinners and gifts
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who am i ?

My name is Ethan and when it comes to dating you could say I was a late bloomer. OK, let’s be honest; when I started, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing when it came to wooing women. I was jealous of the guys who had a continuous string of girlfriends and that led to a lot of self-doubt within myself.

In 2007, I started my journey. I went about honing my craft with vigor and determination. I went to clubs and bars almost every possible night, practicing my “art” each day to find what worked and what didn’t. I can’t begin to tell you how taxing it was, but my desire to be good with women kept me going.

Arming myself each night with "knowledge" and routines, I made countless approaches—most of them wrong. Wrong because I thought that doing things the way they’ve “always been done” was the right way. You have no idea how many times I spent money on dinner dates and gifts, just to see the girl end up with someone else. Or how often I spent money on drinks for girls that would take them and leave and never look back.

It was depressing, to say the least. And even when I thought I’d found the one girl, the only one, how it fell apart and I was devastated. Just like you, I’ve gone through ups and downs. I took insults, enjoyed make out sessions, and even had some awkward moments.

Through it all though, I actually felt proud that I could talk to different women.

But then I plateaued. I was still getting numbers; I was still able to approach any woman; but I realized that I was going nowhere.

I had relied so much on material I’ve read and watched that I had created this "shell" that wasn't me. My game would only go as far as my material lasted and the smarter women have become, the more I’d get called out on my lines or “game.” I had lost myself.

That was when I finally decided to let go of all this “material” and these “tactics” I was relying on for so long, and just started going into each moment with an open mind and no preparation. And through time, I found that I began to appreciate myself more, and so did women.

Let’s face it – Experience matters in the dating game. I’ve since painstakingly broke down and analyzed my interactions with women and came out with a system. This system is not some cheat code you use in your computer games but one that enables you to present natural charm. It consists of elements such as psychology, body language, delivery, tonality etc. just to name a few.

For the last four years, I’ve been coaching men to have real relationships with women. And though it was mainly through word of mouth, I’d never thought to help people on a large scale.

However, after repeated suggestions from my clients and friends—and the personal satisfaction I derive from their success stories—I humbly present to you today, Gentlemen’s Secrets.
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